The Devil In Disguise
You know how it is, we have all been there. You have been sticking to your diet for the last month and you are seeing wonderful results. You are feeling better and better about yourself, you look better too and people are beginning to notice. It’s a Saturday night at 10pm. You ate a filling low fat, low carb, low calorie meal, around 5pm. You are not hungry, but lets be honest, you are craving things.
That’s when it hits! The late night food commercials. Visions of pizza, and succulent burgers dance across the screen. Huge juicy steaks, golden stacks of French toast with maple syrup and whipped cream, butter dripping and oozing from every little curve and indentation, not to mention the sour cream topping baked potatoes. Mmmmm!! You moan and flip the channel and there it attacks again, more late night food commercials, this time it is KFC chicken and Taco Bell fare.
It’s enough to make you cry, or run to the phone and call the nearest Pizza Hut. Or even worse, out of sheer frustration you take that big bucket of your favorite ice cream out and sooth your frazzled taste buds with a big creamy cool portion, only to return again and again out of guilt and frustration over the entire diet dilemma you find yourself in.
The next morning you wake up bloated and miserable hating yourself more than ever. You get on the scale and it groans ominously. You are afraid to look. Just like a bad car wreck you don’t want to look but something compels you to do so. You peek between your fingers only to find you gained four ugly, fat drenched, pounds. Could that be right? Is it possible to gain four pounds of fat from a half a bucket of ice cream? Did that entire bucket of ice cream even weigh four pounds to begin with? How can this be? Once more you shake your head and vow never to have a bucket of ice cream in the freezer again, but you know that sooner or later, as if by magic, the ice cream elves will sneak in another bucket when you are not paying attention.
We live in a time when food is plentiful and cheap. Never before have so many people had so much to eat. When food was scarce, being plump was considered a sign of beauty. However, our idea of plump and the definition of plumpness years ago are two different things. When most women were starved and looked like the gaunt super models of today, normal weight women were probably considered “plump”. So you see, fat has never really been accepted. In the end what was most accepted was a healthy weight. Not starved, not overfed, but healthy.
Starved super models are not healthy, and the big beautiful women, BBW, are not healthy either. Healthy is what real beauty is and was through out the ages. Take any time in history and you will see the ideal feminine beauty represents this. We are naturally attracted to what is most healthy. Why? Because a healthy woman has the best chance to reproduced successfully and raise their young to their own reproductive age, insuring the continuation of the species.
All this is interesting, but it does not help much when we want to stay on a diet and late night TV commercials ruin it for us time after time. Many people are not even aware of why they overeat. They are just caught up in it like a big fish in a net, and like that big fish they feel helpless. We can find one excuse after another, but in the end your degree of fatness is no ones fault but your own. No one else can eat for you, and no one else can lose the weight for you. That sounds unsympathetic but its true, and one needs to see the problem to get to the cure.
If it were up to me, late night food commercials would be outlawed, but I doubt that will happen. There is no reason why a healthy adult needs to be eating late at night, and nothing packs the weight on faster than eating and going right to sleep. So, what I do is tape my favorite shows ahead of time and fast forward the commercials. That way I am not tempted. I need every bit of help I can get. Out of sight is often out of mind.
America is struggling with an obesity epidemic. We have to change the way we think about food and eating if we are ever to get a grip on the problem. Outlawing late night food commercials should be seen in the same vein as outlawing cigarette commercials. Billions of dollars are spent every year to treat fat unhealthy people. The biggest heartbreak of all is how being overweight impacts daily life. No one who has a fat problem can enjoy life the way a person of normal weight can. Indeed, the thing loved best, food, is not even enjoyed in the end. For the overweight, food becomes nothing more than a constant source of guilt and frustration.
There are millions of diets and diet plans out there. Tons of pills and potions and weight loss exercise equipment. Almost all of them are useless. Ask yourself this question, “If there really was a weight loss pill out there that worked, why would Oprah still have a weight problem”? That’s the question I ask myself before I spend money on weight loss products and in the end I usually past them up, because no pill can do for you what you must do for yourself.
At least one can take comfort in knowing there are millions of other people out there trying to lose weight. It is a struggle that many of us will have to contend with the rest of our lives, unless science comes up with a pill that really works, but I am not holding my breath. Twenty years ago it looked like there would be a pill coming out any day that would put an end to the weight problem for good. Twenty years later there are more overweight people out there than ever, and more late night food commercials too.
I don’t know who is responsible for those food commercials, but I wonder how they can sleep at night. Like the cigarette commercials of old, these late night food commercials are creating a world of pain and suffering for millions of people.
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Friday, September 7, 2007
The Veil
I recently watched a TV program about the Middle East, and of course walking in the
streets were the veiled Muslim women. I noticed many of the veils were very beautiful,
and not all women wore the same basic black veil that quickly comes to a Westerners
mind when the subject of veils are brought up.
The truth is, there are many different kinds of veils, ranging from full body veils to head
only veils. Most veils that I noticed do not cover the face, only the head.
Now just imagine how much time you could save by wearing a head veil! How much
time do you spend on your hair everyday? How much MONEY do you spend on your hair
every year?? If you are aware of what is going on in the world today, you will be feeling
pretty guilty about how you answer those two questions.
Just think of all the money spent at a beauty parlor....and then think of what you could do
with that money to improve the world. Maybe even to feed hungry children. By now you
are getting the picture.
Muslim women are not the only women today who wear a form of head gear. The Amish
women wear crisp white little half caps that are just large enough to hide their hair which
they wear up and under the cap. No matter when you see an Amish women she looks
clean, crisp and neat, and I think that has a lot to do with that little white cap that they
wear. Certainly the Amish do not waste time and money when it comes to their hair. Both
Amish and Muslim women wear head coverings because of modesty, but if you happen to
talk to one of them about it I am sure they would also tell you how practical the veil/cap
can be. No need to worry about a bad hair day. No extra time needed to fix your hair at
the busiest time of the day....mornings when the entire family is getting ready to go to
school or work at one time. Amish and Muslim women can devote more time to what is
truly important in their lives by eliminating the constant worry of “fixing” their hair.
When I look at the Western women through the eyes of a stranger, I cannot help but think
she is a weak and frivilous person. It is amazing that she is taken seriously because so
many silly things demand unending amounts of her time and attention. Her appearance is
number one, her weight, her hair, her make-up, even her finger nails and toe nails... and
what she wears all take up vast amounts of her time and attention. Is that not somewhat
ridiculous??
Just because something is a little different does not mean it is automatically bad. Will I go
out and get one of those veil things?? Well, not in the summer, but maybe in winter! See,
I am a chicken too, and it is very difficult to go against the grain, and be even a little bit
different, but I would be happy some days to not have to wonder what I am going top do
with my hair next!
Next time you are struggling to fix your hair and you have a million other things to do, I
hope this blog comes to mind. If fashion designers suddenly made the veil high fashion,
THEN within a few months we would all be wearing the veil because it is “cool”. We
think we are free, but in many ways we are more like slaves to fashion than we could ever
imagine. We all want to fit in, and that may be the biggest problem of all!!
streets were the veiled Muslim women. I noticed many of the veils were very beautiful,
and not all women wore the same basic black veil that quickly comes to a Westerners
mind when the subject of veils are brought up.
The truth is, there are many different kinds of veils, ranging from full body veils to head
only veils. Most veils that I noticed do not cover the face, only the head.
Now just imagine how much time you could save by wearing a head veil! How much
time do you spend on your hair everyday? How much MONEY do you spend on your hair
every year?? If you are aware of what is going on in the world today, you will be feeling
pretty guilty about how you answer those two questions.
Just think of all the money spent at a beauty parlor....and then think of what you could do
with that money to improve the world. Maybe even to feed hungry children. By now you
are getting the picture.
Muslim women are not the only women today who wear a form of head gear. The Amish
women wear crisp white little half caps that are just large enough to hide their hair which
they wear up and under the cap. No matter when you see an Amish women she looks
clean, crisp and neat, and I think that has a lot to do with that little white cap that they
wear. Certainly the Amish do not waste time and money when it comes to their hair. Both
Amish and Muslim women wear head coverings because of modesty, but if you happen to
talk to one of them about it I am sure they would also tell you how practical the veil/cap
can be. No need to worry about a bad hair day. No extra time needed to fix your hair at
the busiest time of the day....mornings when the entire family is getting ready to go to
school or work at one time. Amish and Muslim women can devote more time to what is
truly important in their lives by eliminating the constant worry of “fixing” their hair.
When I look at the Western women through the eyes of a stranger, I cannot help but think
she is a weak and frivilous person. It is amazing that she is taken seriously because so
many silly things demand unending amounts of her time and attention. Her appearance is
number one, her weight, her hair, her make-up, even her finger nails and toe nails... and
what she wears all take up vast amounts of her time and attention. Is that not somewhat
ridiculous??
Just because something is a little different does not mean it is automatically bad. Will I go
out and get one of those veil things?? Well, not in the summer, but maybe in winter! See,
I am a chicken too, and it is very difficult to go against the grain, and be even a little bit
different, but I would be happy some days to not have to wonder what I am going top do
with my hair next!
Next time you are struggling to fix your hair and you have a million other things to do, I
hope this blog comes to mind. If fashion designers suddenly made the veil high fashion,
THEN within a few months we would all be wearing the veil because it is “cool”. We
think we are free, but in many ways we are more like slaves to fashion than we could ever
imagine. We all want to fit in, and that may be the biggest problem of all!!
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